Saturday 5 November 2016

शख्शियत

बहुत ही सुंदर पंक्तियां भेजी है, फारवर्ड करने से खुद को रोक नहीं पाया ....

जब भी अपनी शख्शियत पर अहंकार हो,
एक फेरा शमशान का जरुर लगा लेना।

और....

जब भी अपने परमात्मा से प्यार हो,
किसी भूखे को अपने हाथों से खिला देना।

जब भी अपनी ताक़त पर गुरुर हो,
एक फेरा वृद्धा आश्रम का लगा लेना।

और….

जब भी आपका सिर श्रद्धा से झुका हो,
अपने माँ बाप के पैर जरूर दबा देना।

जीभ जन्म से होती है और मृत्यु तक रहती है क्योकि वो कोमल होती है.

दाँत जन्म के बाद में आते है और मृत्यु से पहले चले जाते हैं...  
  क्योकि वो कठोर होते है।

छोटा बनके रहोगे तो मिलेगी हर
बड़ी रहमत...
बड़ा होने पर तो माँ भी गोद से उतार
देती है..
किस्मत और पत्नी
भले ही परेशान करती है लेकिन
जब साथ देती हैं तो
ज़िन्दगी बदल देती हैं.।।

"प्रेम चाहिये तो समर्पण खर्च करना होगा।

विश्वास चाहिये तो निष्ठा खर्च करनी होगी।

साथ चाहिये तो समय खर्च करना होगा।

किसने कहा रिश्ते मुफ्त मिलते हैं ।
मुफ्त तो हवा भी नहीं मिलती ।

एक साँस भी तब आती है,
जब एक साँस छोड़ी जाती है!!"?.: 
नंगे पाँव चलते “इन्सान” को लगता है
कि “चप्पल होते तो क अच्छा होता”
बाद मेँ……….
“साइकिल होती तो कितना अच्छा होता”
उसके बाद में………
“मोपेड होता तो थकान नही लगती”
बाद में………
“मोटर साइकिल होती तो बातो-बातो मेँ
रास्ता कट जाता”

फिर ऐसा लगा की………
“कार होती तो धूप नही लगती”

फिर लगा कि,
“हवाई जहाज होता तो इस ट्रैफिक का झंझट
नही होता”

जब हवाई जहाज में बैठकर नीचे हरे-भरे घास के मैदान
देखता है तो सोचता है,
कि “नंगे पाव घास में चलता तो दिल
को कितनी “तसल्ली” मिलती”…..

” जरुरत के मुताबिक “जिंदगी” जिओ – “ख्वाहिश”….. के
मुताबिक नहीं………

क्योंकि ‘जरुरत’
तो ‘फकीरों’ की भी ‘पूरी’ हो जाती है, और
‘ख्वाहिशें’….. ‘बादशाहों ‘ की भी “अधूरी” रह जाती है”…..

“जीत” किसके लिए, ‘हार’ किसके लिए
‘ज़िंदगी भर’ ये ‘तकरार’ किसके लिए…

जो भी ‘आया’ है वो ‘जायेगा’ एक दिन
फिर ये इतना “अहंकार” किसके लिए…

ए बुरे वक़्त !
ज़रा “अदब” से पेश आ !!
“वक़्त” ही कितना लगता है
“वक़्त” बदलने में………

मिली थी ‘जिन्दगी’ , किसी के
‘काम’ आने के लिए…..
पर ‘वक्त’ बीत रहा है , “कागज” के “टुकड़े” “कमाने” के लिए………
              

खवाहिश  नही 

*खवाहिश  नही  मुझे  मशहूर  होने  की*।
*आप  मुझे  पहचानते  हो  बस  इतना  ही  काफी  है*।

*अच्छे  ने  अच्छा  और  बुरे  ने  बुरा  जाना  मुझे*।
*क्यों  कि  जिसकी  जितनी  जरुरत  थी  उसने  उतना  ही  पहचाना  मुझे*।

*ज़िन्दगी  का  फ़लसफ़ा  भी   कितना  अजीब  है*,
*शामें  कटती  नहीं,  और  साल  गुज़रते  चले  जा  रहे  हैं*....!!

*एक  अजीब  सी  दौड़  है  ये  ज़िन्दगी*,
*जीत  जाओ  तो  कई  अपने  पीछे  छूट  जाते  हैं*,
*और  हार  जाओ  तो  अपने  ही  पीछे  छोड़  जाते  हैं*।

*बैठ जाता हूं मिट्टी पे अक्सर*...
*क्योंकि मुझे अपनी औकात अच्छी लगती है*..

*मैंने समंदर से सीखा है जीने का सलीक़ा*,
*चुपचाप से बहना और अपनी मौज में रहना*।।

*ऐसा नहीं है कि मुझमें कोई ऐब नहीं है*
*पर सच कहता हूँ मुझमे कोई फरेब नहीं है*

*जल जाते हैं मेरे अंदाज़ से मेरे दुश्मन क्यूंकि एक मुद्दत से मैं

*मालूम है कोई मोल नहीं मेरा, फिर भी*,
*कुछ अनमोल लोगो से रिश्ता रखता हूँ*...!

Think positively

"If you think positively,
sound become music,
Movement
becomes dance, Smile becomes laughter,
Mind becomes meditation and
Life becomes a celebration"

Friday 4 November 2016

Happy Married Life?

I asked my friend , "What is the secret behind your Happy Married Life?"

He said "You should share responsibilities with due love and respect each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems."

I asked "Can you explain?"

He said "In my house, I take decisions on bigger issues where as my Wife decides on smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions."

Still not convinced, i asked him "Give me some examples".

He said "Smaller issues like, which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit the super market, when & where to go on vacation, which sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator to buy. Monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not etc. Are all decided by my wife. I just agree to it "

I asked "Then, what is your role?"

He said "My decisions are only for very big issues. Like whether America should attack Iran, whether Britain should lift sanctions over Zimbabwe, whether Bodoland should be formed or not, whether Dhoni should retire from Cricket , Whom should Salman Khan Marry. etc etc. and do you know, my wife; NEVER, objects to any of these decisions"...

Dedicated to all Married People!

Simple parenting ideas

Rafael Rodrigues
Child psychologist and Behavioral Management To all parents and even grandparents, as well as teachers, here are some unnbelievably simple parenting ideas that work.

1. Children need a minimum of eight  touches during a day to feel connected to a parent.

If they’re going through a particularly challenging time, it’s a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn’t have to be a big deal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug.

2. Each day, children need one meaningful eye-to-eye conversation with a parent.

It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes.

3. There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child:

the first three minutes right after they wake up
the three minutes after they come home from school
the last three minutes of the day before they go to bed
We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved.
These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here.

Try it.
1⃣ Whenever u feel like scolding or beating your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act.
2⃣ Let's ask them to study their favorite subject on their own..
3⃣ Send them to one exam without studying at all..
4⃣ Remember what our kids are learning in 5th std is taught to 7th std abroad..
5⃣ Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition.
6⃣ 80% of what kids are learning ,won't be useful to them in future..
7⃣ Our kids can really afford to do whatever they want to do in future .
8⃣ Higher degrees don't guaranty success and happiness..
9⃣ Not all the highly educated people do well professionally.
And not all who do well professionally are the happiest ones..
Kids are always in a party mood.. don't spoil their childhood. Support and let them be what they want to be.

रिश्ते दिल से

रिश्ते दिल से बनते है बातों से नही ,

कुछ लोग बहुत सी बातो के बाद भी अपने नही होते
और
कुछ शांत रहकर भी अपने बन जाते है ...

बचपन

जवानी से अच्छा कहीं एक बचपन हुआ करता था
जिसमें दुश्मनी की जगह सिर्फ एक कट्टी हुआ करती थी

कितने खुबसूरत हुआ करते थे बचपन के वो दिन        
कि सिर्फ दो उंगलिया जुडने से दोस्ती फिर शुरू हो जाती थी

शहर

गाँव को गाँव ही रहने दो क्यो शहर बनाने मे तुले हो

गांव मे रहोगे तो पिता के नाम से जाने जाओगे

शहर मे रहोगे तो मकान नंबर से पहचाने जाओगे

Wednesday 2 November 2016

Yeh Husband Bechara

Wife : Jannu Main Apne Baal Katwa Loun????

Husband : Katwa Le...

Wife : Itni Mushkil se Lambay Kiye..

Husband : Tou Phir Na Katwa...

Wife : Magar Aj Kal Chhotay Baal in Hain...

Husband : Tou Phir Na Katwa...

Wife : Mere Friends kehti Hain Mere Face cut k sath Short Hair Suit Karengy...

Husband : Tou Phir Katwa Le....

Wife : Magar Chhotay Balon ki Chotti Nai Banti....

Husband : Tou Phir Na Katwaa...

Wife : soch Rahi hun experiment kr k dekh loun...

Husband : Tou Phir Katwa Le...

Wife : Lekin agr kharab ho Gaye Tou?

Husband : Tou Phir Na Katwa...

Wife : soch rahi hun Katwa loun...

Husband : tou phir Katwa le...

Wife : agar suit Na kiye Tou Aap responsible houngy....

Husband : Tou phir Na Katwa...

Wife : wesay chhotay baal sambhalna asan hota hai...

Husband : Tou phir katwa le...

Wife : Dar Lagta hai kaheen buray na lagen....

Husband : Tou phir na Katwa....

Wife : acha ab decide kr lia main ne katwa he leti hun...

Husband : Tou Phir Katwa Le...

Wife : Tou Phir Kab Chalengy ????

Husband : Tou Phir na katwa...

Wife : Main mammi ki taraf janay ki baat Kar rahi hun...

Husband : Tou phir Katwa Le....

Wife : ap kia keh rahay hain???? Apki tabiyat Theek Hai ?

Husband : Tou phir Na Katwa....

" Yeh Husband Bechara ab Aagra k Pagal Khanay Main betha sara din yehi Bolta rehta hai...."

Acha Phir Katwa le
Acha phir Na Katwa

Tuesday 1 November 2016

Connection between firecrackers and Diwali?

What is the connection between firecrackers and Diwali?

The association of firecrackers and Deepavali is an act of marketing success that rivals De Beers’ successful association of diamonds and love. This marketing miracle was the result of two business geniuses from Sivakasi: Ayya Nadar and his brother Shanmuga Nadar.

There is no description of using fireworks to celebrate Deepavali anytime before the Mughal period. During the Mughal era, Deepavali was celebrated primarily using lamps; and, to a very limited extent restricted to the Gujarat area, illuminative fireworks. (On a side note, Aurangzeb banned the public exhibition of both lamps and fireworks for Diwali in 1667.[1]) After the Mughals, for much of the British rule, the stringent Explosives Act restricted the manufacture and sale of the raw materials used to create fireworks.

In 1923, Ayya Nadar and Shanmuga Nadar planted the seed that would grow to become the phenomenon that is Diwali fireworks today. Having migrated to Calcutta in search of their fortunes, and having found their fortunes working in a match factory there, they returned to their native Sivakasi and established a match factory. In 1940, the Explosives Act was amended, making the manufacture of a certain class of fireworks legal. The Nadar brothers seized the opportunity and in 1940, created the first fireworks factory in Sivakasi.

The Nadar brothers worked hard to associate Deepavali with fireworks, and their nationwide presence from the match industry gave them a platform to do so. The fireworks industry in Sivakasi grew by leaps and bounds, and by 1980, there were 189 factories in Sivakasi alone, manufacturing fireworks and supplying them all over the country.

Today, for many people, Deepavali and fireworks are synonymous with each other - but this connection is no more ancient than 1940.

No fad can grow exponentially without leaving a bloody trail behind it. When De Beers made diamond rings de rigueur for engagement and marriage ceremonies, they lit the spark of ravenous consumerism that is today responsible for ecological destruction and political devastation in countries like Congo, Angola, Liberia and Ivory Coast, which shows no sign of stopping. Likewise, the fireworks industry in Sivakasi was responsible for child labor, occupational death and disability, and fueling caste tensions in its hometown; and it leaves a legacy of noise, smoke, pollution, and a terrifying day for babies and animals all over the country.

Deepavali is the festival of lights; and lighting a few lamps is all the celebration that is needed for this amazing festival. When you buy and burst crackers on this day, all you are doing is proclaiming to the world that you, too, have been successfully conned by the scam orchestrated in 1940 by the Nadar brothers. There is no pride, honor or spiritual reward in that.